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We have submitted our response to the the Children's Committee of the Assembly in respect of their investigation of Cafcass Cymru.
The Consultation response can be found in the Documents section of our website.
We have asked the Comittee Chair Chrsitine Chapman AM to allow us to appear before the Committee to give oral evidence.
PRESS RELEASE - FOR
IMMEDIATE PUBLICATION – 30/8/14
LIB DEMS LEAD THE WAY WITH FATHER INCLUSIVE POLICIES
Lib Dem Minister for Equalities and Women Jo Swinson MP has
announced plans for tangible changes to support the role of fathers by
extending the right to paternity leave from two to six weeks stating :
"When parents share caring responsibilities, more equality in the
workplace will follow."
Welcoming the move by the Lib Dems, Paul Apreda, National
Manager for FNF Both Parents Matter Cymru said
‘We’ve been grateful for the support of Lib Dems in Wales for these
sorts of policies that tackle the widespread exclusion of fathers from the
lives of children. We can now see how the party is translating words into
This contrasts dramatically with the policies of Welsh Labour who are
about to release new Parenting Guidance in Wales full of 'warm words' but
containing no practical proposals whatever to tackle the widespread exclusion
and marginalisation of fathers.’
Ms Swinson said it was "nonsense" to believe
mothers should be left to care for children alone.
She added: "Most
dads want to spend more time with their new baby, but can sometimes be
discouraged by outdated ideas and cultural barriers in the workplace.”
The charity is currently gathering signatures for a Petition
to the Assembly committee headed by Lib Dem AM William Powell to call on the Welsh
Government to do more to tackle the huge problem of ‘disposable dads’ who are
ignored or marginalised by statutory services.
‘We have set out a 6
point plan which includes support for dads to be encouraged to play a muh more
hands on role – allowing more women to return to work which should help create
a more equal society both in the home and in the workplace. Currently the Welsh
Government has no idea how effective the services they fund are in working with
men as they refuse to even record the gender of the parents engaged’. Said Paul
FNF Both Parents Matter is a Wales based registered charity
that supports parents and grandparents irrespective of gender who face child
The charity is a member of the independent advice providers
forum Advice UK and its work has been recognised by the Department for Work
& Pensions with the quality mark for Help & Support for Separated
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SO MUM, WHY DON’T I HAVE A DADDY?
Father’s Day is almost with us. The marketing machine drives forward the card, mug and tee-shirt industry’s push for sales of ‘No.1 Dad’ merchandise. But a report (1) from the Centre for Social Justice highlights that for the majority of children in parts of the Welsh capital they’re wasting their efforts.
The report shows that 62% of households in the Trowbridge area of Cardiff are headed by a lone parent. That puts the area in the Top 20 of the highest rates for single households in England and Wales.
When you look at single mother households across England and Wales Trowbridge jumps to number 7 with a staggering 59% figure, and is joined in the Top 10 by Ely with the same percentage showing - that a clear majority of children in these deprived areas lack the influence of a male role model - let alone their natural father - in their lives.
Cardiff Council’s Green Paper on Building Communities (2) also shows that in the east of the city – where Trowbridge is located - ‘parents not taking responsibility for their children’ was seen as the biggest problem in their local area with a staggering 60.5% of respondents to a survey identifying it as their number one issue – higher than vandalism or littering. It’s hard to see that the statistics on single parent households and parents not taking responsibility for their children aren’t linked in some way.
National Manager for the charity FNF Both Parents Matter,
Paul Apreda said:
‘We have been highlighting the importance of support for both parents to remain involved and engaged in the lives of their children to both the Council in Cardiff
and the Welsh Government. The Welsh Government have a legal duty to support BOTH parents in their child raising obligations.(3)
We are working with the Welsh Government to map the existing participation and engagement of fathers in parenting support programmes across Wales, but from existing data we know that much more needs to be done to support fathers. Only two years ago Children in Wales highlighted to the Assembly’s Children’s Committee the lack of engagement with fathers.(4)
In Cardiff the flagship early years initiative Flying Start stated that only 1 parent in
20 that they worked with was a dad. Other children’s charities such as Barnardos and Action for Children also recognise the lack of engagement with fathers. We are certain that the new Parenting Strategy being developed by the Welsh Government will put measures in place to protect the right of the child to contact with both parents.
– Articles 9 and 18 in particular
- paragraphs 37 & 38, 41 & 42
PAUL APREDA – FNF Both Parents Matter Cymru – email@example.com 07947135864
CALLING ALL FAMILY SUPPORT & PAENTING PROFESSIONALS ACROSS WALES
The charity is currently undertaking research with Welsh Government support to establish a baseline of participation in Parenting Support Programmes and Family Support Services by ADULT Male Carers of children (fathers / step fathers / grandfathers etc) – irrespective of the relationship status with the mother of the child and whether they are resident or non-resident with the children for varying amounts of time.
We would greatly appreciate the help of family support services and parenting programme providers across Wales by following the link below to contribute to our research.
As we are seeking to map participation in mainstream services we are seeking data from Parenting programmes / services with universal access eg FAST / Strengthening Families etc through to preventative services targeting emerging need eg Families First. We are NOT seeking data from specialist services eg drug & alcohol / mental health / DV / disability etc at this time.
We are interested in data for the period 1/4/12 TO 31/3/13 only.
In addition to the Survey Monkey link we can send you a questionnaire directly by emailing firstname.lastname@example.org
National Manager - FNF Both Parents Matter Cymru
We've developed a simple 6 point action plan for Welsh Government which we'd like them to adopt for Fathers Day this year. Please let us know what you think - and whether you want any more information
• All WG funded programmes to record gender of parents / carers they work with
• Targets to increase participation of fathers and all other NRPs with WG services ...
• First Minister to make annual statement on the importance of fathers AND what the WG has done to help them in the past 12 months
• Encourage improved shared care of children to allow more parents (particularly single parents) to take up training or employment programmes
• Recognition of Parental Alienation as a form of emotional abuse of children
• Establish a work group under the Family Justice Network for Wales to co-ordinate improved collaboration for those organisations who have the DWP's Help & Support for Separated Families Mark in Wales